Lailah Gifty AkitaThrough many tributions, we begin to search for the truth.
About This Quote
We often hear other people say “I’m not saying it to be mean, but…” or “I’m just being honest, so…” The problem is, these phrases don’t really have any meaning. If I’m not being mean, why would I say, “I’m not saying it to be mean?” If I was being honest all along, why would I need to apologize for being honest? Saying it to be mean or being honest aren’t really ways of dealing with a situation – they just don't have any real value.
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